All of my wife’s former sexual partners before me were circumcised. Her first husband was circumcised. They had their sons circumcised. To her knowledge, she suspects all of the men in her life are circumcised.
I was the first uncut.
She was caught off guard at first, and didn’t know what to do. American porn and health class sex ed and kids on the playground all drew cut penises, and that is just the norm for so many Americans. She was never mean or rude to me, but at first it was a lot of pulling the skin back to get to the head, and over time we tried other things until now more than a decade in and we have amazing sexual chemistry. She loves it now, and even when I ask her to pull the foreskin back and suck me “circumcised” she gets confused because she finds the foreskin more comfortable to give handjobs, more engaging for blowjobs, and she loves that we don’t need lube for any sexual activity.
