Seeking Help/ Advice

tinder8877

Hello,

To start I'm a freshman in college. I have only had sex with one girl while on vacation. I've been at college for about four weeks now and have had the opportunity to hook up with multiple girls (not bragging). However, I decided not to because of the fact I'm uncircumcised. In the U.S as you know, this isn't common. I'm scared of what they may think and if they tell there friends news will spread around the small campus. I don't want to be circumcised but I feel like my confidence isn't where it should be due to this. I also have PPP which adds to my dilemma. If anybody has any advice as to what I should do it would be greatly appreciated. Thanks for your time.

triobigmac

you should turn it into your favor and make those vaginas feel what its like to get fuck by a normal dick

Desi23

Use it as your unique selling proposition. Look up European non-biased studies about intact men and female orgasms, get her to enjoy giving you handjobs and oral in fun ways! Good luck, pm me for any ques.

Pay2Win

Advice, stop being a pussy.

Uncut cocks are better in every way, show her why.

intact

There is no "penis pageant" where girls line men up to compare dicks before sex.

Seriously, this is the last thing on earth you have to fear. It's in your head.

In my experience, most women -- especially young ones -- are too concerned with what YOU think of their bodies to spare even a fleeting thought as to how your penis is configured.

Besides, doesn't most sex take place with the lights out?

Women are attracted to confident, dominant men. That's where you should concentrate your thinking.

Source: nine women and 15 years of marriage. Wife converted from ignorant to intactivist, thanks to me and my foreskin. (Her first.)

PM me if you want to drill down any further.

veigus

College girls are young and still open to experimentation. Take advantage of your youth and fuck as many of these girls as possible. In another thread, I wrote about the time my girlfriend made me show my dick to a few of her friends and showed them how it worked by stroking it in front of them. Not sure what to say about the PPP. if you don't make a big deal about it then they probably won't.

snoman

If a girl freaks out at you because you have a foreskin, she isn't mature enough to be having sex.

Most women don't care one way or the other. Some people have preferences, but that's all they are, and if they're attracted to you, they won't matter.

I used to bug an ex about this all the time until one day she snapped at me and said "You might as well ask me if I prefer left or right handed people. That's what kind of a difference it makes to me."

Girls are more attracted to confidence (and money!) than anything. Just be yourself and have a good time. If she doesn't like you for your foreskin, there'll be plenty of others who either will or who won't give a shit.

Oh - and LOTS of girls are into one-upping each other. I've seen this countless times. They'll claim to like something just because they know they're the only one in their circle who's even had experience with whatever it is they're talking about. It gives them cred, and a lot of girls/women really seem to enjoy holding this over their friends.

This could be a big win for you if you have a girl like that in your sights!

qmachine

You should search this subject on Reddit. It’s a very common topic.

But here are a few pointers from someone who had similar fears in the past but have since grown out of them:

If you aren’t confident about your foreskin then they aren’t going to be confident about it. If you act like it’s no big deal, or you are happy about the way you are then chances are she will be too. This is the thing you probably need to work on most.
If it’s a one night stand type of thing then do you really care if you get shut down? I think it’s unlikley especially if you pull back the skin first or hurry up and put on a condom. If it’s someone you are dating then they should realize quick that it’s no big deal. And If they don’t then they are shallow and it’s time to find someone more mature.
At this point have you been turned down because of it or is it just a worry? If it’s the first couple times you had sex with the person and the lights are off there is a good chance they don’t notice. This has been my experience in the past and I’ve heard it from others as well. You should let the girls decide if it’s an issue for them instead of deciding that for them.

Hope this helps! Remember times are changing. Uncircumcised is becoming more common and more and more people will learn about the benefits. You should know the benefits and be confident and feel lucky that you got to keep what you were born with.

snoman

qmachine wrote
If it’s the first couple times you had sex with the person and the lights are off there is a good chance they don’t notice. This has been my experience in the past and I’ve heard it from others as well.

This. One of the first girls I ever slept with had been with 10 guys before me. One morning we were lying in bed and she was playing with my cock. I asked her if I was the first uncut guy she'd ever been with.

She said "I have no idea".

Like i said above - most women won't care.

Kenoki2

I have PPP too. I wish I had taken care of it a long time ago. look up cosmetic dermatology and find someone with a CO2 laser. I think you'll be more confident then.

swedish420

tinder8877 wrote
Hello,

To start I'm a freshman in college. I have only had sex with one girl while on vacation. I've been at college for about four weeks now and have had the opportunity to hook up with multiple girls (not bragging). However, I decided not to because of the fact I'm uncircumcised. In the U.S as you know, this isn't common. I'm scared of what they may think and if they tell there friends news will spread around the small campus. I don't want to be circumcised but I feel like my confidence isn't where it should be due to this. I also have PPP which adds to my dilemma. If anybody has any advice as to what I should do it would be greatly appreciated. Thanks for your time.

A girl once told me she was glad I was circumcised like five minutes after sucking my uncircumcised dick. I think they see the exposed head and assume that means it's been cut.

Camel

My Italian friends are all uncut.

One girl he met first time, said it looked 'weird', he said 'I'm Italian, not a Muslim or a Jew. Go date a Muslim if you want circumcised dicks.'

Her face went red, a little embarrassed because she realized how dumb she sounded.
She proceeded to suck and fuck him like crazy.

Most women do these tests, they disrespect you, see how you handle it. If you cower you look weak, no woman wants a weak man. Look it up, it's called shit tests.

The important thing is keep it clean, and be confident. No woman wants a weak beta that seeks her approval.

Don't be afraid to make fun of her idiot comment. Tell her to go date ISIS if she wants cut cocks, or move to Afghanistan. 50% of the US is now intact.

intact

Camel wrote
Most women do these tests, they disrespect you, see how you handle it. If you cower you look weak, no woman wants a weak man. Look it up, it's called shit tests.
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Don't be afraid to make fun of her idiot comment. Tell her to go date ISIS if she wants cut cocks, or move to Afghanistan. 50% of the US is now intact.

OMG this is absolutely correct. Never thought to connect shit tests with foreskin shaming.

tinder8877

Thanks for the reply. It’s more of a concern as for I have had sex with one girl who didn’t notice. I appreciate your reply and taking the time to write back!