First time posting/commenting but this was something that I always wondered, how other uncut guys have been received by their female partners. I’m 29, American. Growing up I saw all of the stigmas here in the states, my family actually made fun of me a lot for it growing up so by the time I had friends and played sports and things like that, I went to great lengths to make sure my penis was never seen and I avoided the rare conversations regarding circumcision. My parents intended to have me cut at birth but because of a skin infection I had, the doctor advised against it. Many of my friends that did openly reveal being uncut were all called “dirty dick” or “aardvark” or something like that pretty often. It didn’t stop me from starting to date in high school.
1st partner both 16 year old virgins: She said it “scared her” in front of a group of friends but when I asked her why she didn’t elaborate, likely embarrassed, so I let my friends believe she was referring to the size, lol. Later she told me that it was my foreskin that scared her. She had only seen uncut penises before and didn’t know that foreskins were a thing so she thought there was something wrong with it. We had very awkward and uncomfortable sex and I could tell she was apprehensive about my foreskin and we stopped seeing each other after that.
2nd partner (18): I was the first penis that she had ever seen in person but she had done her homework apparently because she knew what it was and was curious. She however, taught me what DOESN’T feel good.
3rd partner (18): Sex was great, but my foreskin or penis at all for that matter, were never a conversation she just always said it that while all dicks are kinda ugly, I had a good one.
4th partner (19): Claimed that she loved the fact that I was uncut, but never played with my foreskin or focused on it specifically. I think she just wanted to be different. She did say that she wanted to try anal, because she heard uncut doesn’t hurt as much, but unfortunately she cheated, and then we broke up, before that could happen.
5th partner (19): Previous partner’s close friend, I know, unhealthy way to get over her. We only hooked up the once and she never said anything about it but immediately retraced the foreskin and then proceeded as if I were cut.
Current partner (20-now): The first year or so, it never came up. Neither one of us mentioned it until she was unable to refill a birth control prescription and we used a condom for the first time. I expressed my discomfort as they aren’t necessarily the easiest thing to use with an uncut dick. When she asked me why I said because I’m not circumcised and she said “Oh that’s the skin at the top, right?” We then had a good conversation about it, and we developed a bit of a kink around my foreskin and the play I enjoyed. She really seemed to embrace it, however about year ago I tore my frenulum and due to a failed frenulum repair, I’m likely getting circumcised here as soon as I can. We’ll see what the next chapter holds, and see if she notices any differences. I know I will.
