One of my past partners (“sexual partner #5” in the original post) and I have rekindled our friendship after she went through a gnarly breakup earlier this year. Since we have reconnected, we have had some very open and honest discussions about our past, as well as our sex lives after we parted ways about six years ago.
I told her about lingering low confidence in my penis’s aesthetics because it is very unusual for my age cohort to be uncut in the USA. (I have a good amount of foreskin, enough that my glans stays 90% covered when erect.) How, when I get frisky with a woman for the first time, I make sure I pull my foreskin down and make it look circumcised because that is deemed “normal” by women here. She said she didn’t notice I was uncut until she gave me a handjob, but didn’t want to say anything about it to ruin the moment. It wasn’t a good or bad thing, initially, just very different and not what she was used to. We were together for about half a year and she gained some appreciation for uncircumcised, but never outright expressed a preference one way or the other. With respect to that:
Back then, she said she liked how foreskin felt different to her, how she could notice the difference in-hand and in-vagina; and how she found it was visually arousing when the glans comes out of the foreskin upon retraction. One time, I remember, we were lying naked in bed, and she was working my penis with her hands, looking at it closely, trying to figure out where the foreskin went when she pulled it down. I asked her what was up: she looked embarrassed, turned her eyes (and took her hands) away, and mumbled something about foreskin that I wish I could recall. There was a learning curve for her on how to please an uncut guy, but it was not a turn-off, and she enjoyed learning the things you can do with foreskin.
Anyway, each of us has had two more partners since then. For her, the first had a very small, circumcised penis (no more than three inches, she claims) who was also highly insecure about it. He had other glaring red flags and they broke up within a year. Her second new partner was a boyfriend of about one and a half years and he was apparently quite well endowed, but still circumcised. I asked straight up at this point, whether she had a preference in 2025 and she said no, very neutral on the subject of circumcision, because the sex she had with this cut boyfriend was the best she ever had. Specifically, though, she spoke favorably of her experiences with me as feeling different, particularly “texture-wise” and “smoothness”. Twice, largely unprompted, she mentioned me being uncircumcised as a novel, overall good experience, so that was nice to hear!
As for my two partners since that time:
- Older woman, divorcee, who had all circumcised partners before me. Her son is not circumcised, primarily because she felt it was the wrong thing to do. When our messages got spicy, she let it be known that she wanted to try out an uncut dick, you know, for science and all. We’ve had a situationship for several years now (haven’t seen each other in a while) but suffice to say, I have her favorite penis. Particularly because of me being uncircumcised: she cites the gliding action not making her sore, and being able to do more with hands and mouth.
- One of the Muslim women I mentioned earlier in this thread. I have, as usual, had the only uncut penis she had dealt with, and she has quite liked it. Not a turn-off at all, although she is concerned about hygiene. When she gives me oral, she pretty much just pulls the skin down and ignores it, although she makes sure to give my frenulum some tongue action. She likes not needing lube for handjobs and how easy that is. Penetrative sex-wise, no complaints from her, either.
