This is all bulshit

jon992

Yes I am 100% sure women care about everything other than the cock, if she does she isn't worth spending your time on.

I am absolutely convinced about this, they don't care about it, a woman will love a 4 inch cut willy, if they like the person. It doesn't matter to them.

It's all in our heads and what we've seen on social media/porn sites that has damaged our brains.

zigzag

I've been on this site a few years. If you read other posts and links you see that there are some women who care but, I believe most don't.

I admit I allowed the internet and online get to me and had sometimes low self esteem about myself not just being uncircumcised. Online is terrible with stories, opinions and body shaming in general. Media doesn't help either.

Just on circumcision I noticed particularly american media, social media, forums etc. Say nasty degrading stuff about uncircumcised guys. They try to push it on other countries too it gets demoralizing.

But what I've learned last couple of years is to try to ignore online bullshit and trolls. What is said online I've personally never experienced in real life. I've had sexual encounters with around 40 women and not once have they degraded me or said anything about me being uncircumcised. Now I've been happily married for 4 years and absolutely love my wife she's amazing. But I still have allowed online bs get to me. Partly why I joined this site.

But I agree based on real life experiences and the fact that my brother and friends who are uncircumcised are now all married I do think most women care more about the man they're with then their body parts.

intact

I am 100% sure women care about everything other than the cock

Yep. That's been my experience. With just a couple of exceptions, and they were fucked-up girls, trying to fill an emotional hole (daddy issues) with a physical act.

And yet, every man on Earth will go ga-ga over porn, which is all about girls going after cock.

Funny, that. And so many women hate porn and won't let their men enjoy it.

In a 20-year relationship (with a hot girl, BTW), I can think of a handful of times I got her to "do porn sex" with me. Not filming, just acting out things she likely wouldn't have thought of. She cooperated, with enthusiasm. Still, I had to lead her there.

One thing I've learned about women is, they have different desires and needs. They can seem foreign to us, but they're completely natural.

For all their ambitions, women remain smaller than men and they feel less capable. In primitive times, they would marvel at the village men bringing home meat -- something they know they could never do. That sense of "second to men" persists in their atavistic minds. I don't think it will ever change.

They seek security, comfort, provision. Even if they say they don't want children or they're past childbearing age, they want a man to provide them with a safe place suitable for a family.

Don't get distracted with exceptions, with fantasies, with porn.

Seek to be the man, the safety and security a woman needs but doesn't always say out loud. It's not a macho thing, it's just what we are built for.

Supply that, and a woman will meet your needs in turn.

ffetish

It is and it isn't. I have overheard enough real world conversations to know that its not just the media that plays into the psychology that many of us have developed. On the flip side your 100 percent right that its very uncommon for a woman to turn her nose up at sexual encounter because of the presence of a foreskin. My suspicion is that a couple of different things are going on. On the one hand women (and men btw) tend to have preferences, often ignorant ones, but that's all they all preferences; not deal breakers. And women, in general, body shame a lot less then men do. There are also some very vapid superficial women who would do freak out when the realize the man they were about to screw is intact, but they are a small minority and I suspect most of the people on this board know them selves well enough to stay clear of a woman with those traits.

As to the question of kink. The idea of a mainstream kink seems kind of oxymoronic to me, BDSM is the closet thing to this and it still gets a lot of judgement. The question of heterosexual men focusing on the male member in porn is not at all weird, the porn industry is very much aware of this fact. If done correctly porn is supposed to allow us to transport our selves into the bodies of the performer (especially his penis). Also I don't think there is anything weird about heterosexual men, examining, admiring, or what ever verb you want to use another mans equipment, its actually pretty natural. Human sexuality is extremely complex and mostly happens in the brain not the gentiles.

I would like to see more women on this site, for one thing it would tone down some of the men's rights rhetoric I see in some posts, but for most women who have been with an intact man its either no big deal (if they live in the states) or the norm (most of the rest of the world), so why would they be interested in this?

anonym00

The vast majority of women outside of America or muslim majority countries don't think anything at all about the foreskin. It's just "the norm". They don't have any clear cut preference.

However I'm a bit skeptical of the fact that she would be willing to put up with a small (<5") member for a long term relationship, no matter how much she likes the person. It's a rough world out there for the less endowed men. I've overheard enough women speaking about it + seen a multitude of experiences to know what I'm talking about. I'm 6" long and I still feel like it's barely acceptable sometimes.

Omegutted

Agree with the general sentiment of this post. None of the women I've had intimate encounters with were at all turned off by my foreskin. Either they didn't care, they came around to liking it very much (because of the rest of me, including personality, etc.) or they had already experienced the "forbidden fruit" here in America, so to speak, and enjoyed it. The media does portray being uncut as undesirable, but that is just a cultural phenomenon that in my experience, doesn't filter down to 'the woman next door," so to speak.

I'm here because I do connect better with pornographic material that happens to feature male performers whose organs are unmodified, like mine. That's really it.