As a man you must put your efforts into fruitful endeavours that will benefit you. If this guy had put seriously effort into combat sports, weight training, eating healthy, looks maxing, starting a business and becoming rich, he wouldn’t have to settle for this girl who is at best a 4 and asking him to waste his time and money on useless surgery. I workout, do combat sports, eat healthy, looks max, make very good money, and dating is a breeze now.
Also, when a woman respects you and is strongly attracted to you, she’s going to become a fan of whatever wiener style you’re rocking. If you’re a little chubby broke loser she’s going to do this sort of stuff because she doesn’t respect you, it’s funny to them to see what kind of stupid stuff you’ll do for her, women can be exceedingly cruel to low value men.
My point is, if a woman views you as her best option, she is going to try to please you, not the other way around.