Omegutted I just joined this site, thanks for having me. This is my first post/response, and glad for it to be this one - albeit a few years past the OP.
I was raised in a family with my step father and 2 step brothers - all circumcised, except me. I later found out my late father wished he hadn’t been cut, and against my mother’s wishes, held strongly against having his son cut. Then he died, and she remarried into a circumcised family.
When I was 16, my first girlfriend that I was intimate with reached in my pants while we were making out… when she felt that I was uncut, she gave me a handjob, and broke up with me soon thereafter.
3 more girls gave me handjobs after that, but would never go any further.
At the same time, the locker room after wrestling practice or at the YMCA was a place where I tried to hide my penis, as I was clearly the only uncircumcised guy in eyeshot. the guys teased me, and the girls talked.
I was student Body President, and the uncut guy. And to no girls (who made it apparent to me) was that appealing.
I lost my virginity at a graduation party in a neighboring town; we were goth wasted and I’m sure she never knew I was uncut. When I get hard, the foreskin is naturally loose enough to roll back that I figured I could hide it by making sure I kept it pulled back so I look cut.
Through my early 20s, I had a few short term girlfriends, and the first time we got down was usually a look of shock and confusion. Every girl I’ve ever been with said that I was the first uncut cock they had seen in real life. A couple were curious, some apprehensive, but the majority were slightly turned off. A few even later explained that they didn’t intend to be mean, and I get it: they are a product of 1990s America, where the majority of men were circumcised, sex ed taught circumcised, kids drew circumcised penises, and porn was 99% circumcised. We had all been conditioned by a world that was majority circumcised and taught that was the norm. I felt like I needed to rattle off a disclaimer on the first date, or just try to hide it until I was already hard.
When I was 25 I started a coworker 15 years my senior. She was gorgeous, fit, divorced without kids, and adventurous. She also had never seen an uncut man in person, but she wanted it. Fuck it was good. She wanted to explore me and I her. For 2 years we were sexual animals, fucking at work and on hikes and in the car and everywhere. And she was never shy with my foreskin.
Until she took a job across the country. That tryst evaporated, and her enjoyment of my intact cock with it.
A few more women and relationships rounded out my 20s, but none of them found my uncircumcised cock appealing. We would have sex, but blowjobs were out of the question.
At 29 I hooked up with my now wife. The ex wife of a friend, we had known each other for a decade through various orbits of friendship. A concert followed by a night on the town, and we ended up back at my place. When we woke up in the morning, we started fooling around again, and she queried “wait, you’re not circumcised?” Another instance of waiting til I was hard and keeping it pulled back.
It took her a while. Sex was fine - great really - and she was never mean or rude, but I could tell she wasn’t comfortable. Handjobs were clumsy and awkward, and blowjobs were only on rare occasions. Over the first year, I opened up about my insecurities, and she opened up about hers.
She said a few years before, one of her girlfriends had been with a guy who wasn’t cut, but he wanted to be. The girls all talked about it, and they didn’t know the term, but dude must’ve had phimosis and wasn’t happy with his one equipment. When she first saw my intact member, that was her only point of reference.
I told her about my experiences, some positive, but mostly negative. She told me how all of her former lovers had been cut, and she never thought twice about it. I asked her if she wished I was cut, and she smiled and said no, that she thinks it’s uniquely me.
Over time, we both gained comfort with my intact member. I asked her what she liked about each circumcised or uncircumcised, and we would play in ways I never imagined.
We’ve been together for over 10 years now, and it gets more fun every day. She will do some kinky shit with my foreskin, and also role play that she is going to circumcise me. She would never want me to actually get cut, but she has leaned into my insecurities and found how erotic it can be to play into them. We keep an ox balls cock ring they we can use to pull the foreskin down with my scrotum so that I look cut. She will suck and nibble my foreskin, and can make me cum with the skin up. We found these various methods of autocircumcision to keep the foreskin retracted, and have gone whole weekend with my foreskin taped back so we can pretend they I’m circumcised. She will randomly say “I want to fuck your uncut cock” or “I want to suck you circumcised.” Both get me equally hard, and I love that we can explore both of our pasts, present, and future together.
