What have the women in your life said?

Omegutted · 2022-01-17T03:39:04+00:00

Putting this out there - since I'm sure some of you have girlfriends, wives, sisters, friends, coworkers, etc. who you may have talked to about circumcision,...

Sheptha

May be a bit lengthy but here goes:
Born in Europe but emigrated to the States when I was seven. Even before finding this site I realized I was different from the mainstream and was very self conscious about it. I would avoid any talk and even avoided pursuing romantic interests because I was convinced women would find it off-putting. Circa 2015-2016, I developed a bit of penchant for dick ratings and got multiple (don't know the exact number but its well over 20) ones done.

Results? I would say 95% said they didn't really care if it was one way or the other. Even the women that said they preferred the look of circumcised would have no issue with it in the bedroom. The few that said they disliked it I specifically sought out, having developed a bit of a kink for attention/humiliation coming to this site haha.

This information emboldened me to actually pursue many of the romantic interests I avoided in the past. The results of this have largely mirrored what I have experienced with the ratings. As I said before, having developed a kink for any and all talk related to foreskin, and when I was coherent enough to ask, I would ask women if they "minded that I was not circumcised". A defensive way of asking the question, immediately implying that I was somehow aberrant from the norm, hoping for a reaction.

Been to quite a few massage parlors. Most said they did not care at all. Most even played with the skin after I requested it. I've only ever had two negative experiences. One was at a Korean massage parlor (once again, specifically seeking it out). During the table shower portion of the massage, she grabbed my dick and basically looked at it like she had never seen one before. Retracted the skin to wash it and kept it pulled back. Stated she did not like it with the skin up and proceeded to stroke me with the skin pulled back. The other one was a parlor in Montreal from an American raised Dominican girl. This one was a bit strange because she stated that she had no preference yet did her utmost to ensure my skin was always pulled back. Had one moment near the ending when her hand slipped, causing the skin to slide back up. She didn't look too pleased and yanked the skin back immediately.

Hookups with women? The ones where I was drunk and didn't care, there wasn't even a single mention made of it. When specifically asked (see above), not one cared. Some even played with the skin after.

I've even been with a couple of escorts. Same exact experience as with the hookups. Even sought out a Jewish escort, hoping she wouldn't like it. Once again, she said she didn't care. She was also happy to do anything with the skin that I asked (finger and tongue swirling, pinching, pulling, etc.)

Even my male friends were largely indifferent when they found out I was uncut.

This site (as good as it is) is an echo chamber. You get a distorted representation of reality that largely does not reflect actual experience. When I learned to not fret and care as much, even in a country where circumcision is largely practiced, women care very little (this includes size as well; another aspect men obsess over). Most are just concerned that it works and that you practice regular hygiene.

drat

thedevilsumbrella wrote
drat wrote
Grew up in US and always felt different being uncut. I remember seeing diagrams and even children’s body education books which showed the boys body with a circumcised penis. I was always keen and kept a close ear to any circ talk as a defense mechanism to know what people thought and if I needed to avoid anyone. For example, in high school the hottest girl in school once said at lunch, as i sat across from her, that she heard this one guy was uncircumcised and she began to do a dry gag expression— so I knew she would not be interested in me and to not bark up that tree.

In my adolescence I recall nurses and doctors always speak to it during the yearly physicals. I always dreaded those yearly physicals and felt that every doctor was not expecting an uncut penis and some nurses didn’t know what to do. I remember one nurse in particular, when I was 11 maybe 12 years old asked if she can take a quick look and pull down my underpants while in was lying down, after she listened to my chest. I said it’s okay and she grabbed my underwear’s band and started to examine my penis. That’s when she got big eyes and started reciting her medical text and would speak out loud about “patient is uncircumcised” and said how she’s “going to exam by pulling foreskin back”. I was just getting into feeling attracted to females and thought this nurse was pretty (she was an African American beauty and I’m pretty sure I got an erection which made it harder to pull the foreskin back). I personally wasn’t retracting much in those early years so it didn’t retract easily when I was soft and even more difficult to pull it back when erect. The nurse kind of got frustrated and kept attempting to pull down and asked if it hurt or felt uncomfortable. I said it was okay,
but it did feel uncomfortable, I thought it was on me for her difficulty in pulling it back. She put my underwear back and went to get the pediatrician for assistance. The pediatrician came in, slide my underwear down and was able to force the foreskin all the way back. The doctor was Jewish with black hair and big breasts (I’d go to her until I was 18). After my head was exposed I remember they were touching my head and it being so sensitive it felt like I was being shocked. They asked if i pulled it back regularly to clean it. The doctor commented that I almost looked circumcised, and everything looked good. I remember I was happy that she said that i looked almost circumcised since I’d hope no one would be able to tell I was uncut at school should my penis ever become seen (only later realized that she meant that when i was fully retracted that i looked circumcised and not all the time). After they were done the doctor and nurse left my head exposed and pulled my underwear back up, which sent a huge shock to my exposed head when underwear rubbed it for the first time. One or both of them could tell that I was uncomfortable and the doctor asked if I’d like to have my foreskin pulled back up. I said yes and the doctor asked the nurse to do.

My first girlfriend, when I was 13, was Jewish and her name was Sarah. We were young and never had sex but she would planning out our lives and say when we got married and had kids that they would be raised Jewish. She said our boys would be circumcised like the father, lol, even though she was assuming that I was cut. She had younger brothers and likely knew more about circumcision than the average 13 year old girl. When kids started doing handjobs and blowjobs she said she’d be down for it. However, when it came down to it and we were in her parents basement watching a movie she started feeling around and pulled out my penis and acted like I had an alien penis. She said she’d do it next time, but next time never came.

Next girlfriend I had would give me my first blowjob and never really mentioned that I was uncut. Her parents were acting like their grand parents came from overseas and I’d hope that meant that they were pro natural penis. I’d learn later on, when my gf parents found previously lost baby tapes, that wasn’t the case. My girlfriend had a younger brother and I remember my girlfriend’s mom mentioned in one of the videos that she’s applying vasaline to the recently circumcised penis and how he looks like the father).

Have a ton more examples lol, I posted one recently when I went to the beach with my wife and heard a group of women speak about how they like circumcised men. Basically all my life I’ve only heard of women liking circumcised penis.

Curious... did your wife say anything about the group of women preferring circumcised? Was she embarrassed? How does your wife feel about it?

My wife didn’t say anything at the time but she 100% heard it and likely imagined the circumcised penis as the girls were descriptive and my wife has only been with cut guys outside of me.

I tried to bringing up foreskin talk and praise during sex but the bait never took. I remember the first time she asked me about the skin bunched up, on my penis, while we were naked watching tv in bed and I explained it last because I’m uncircumcised. She didn’t seem to care but I get the feeling that while she doesn’t care if it’s cut or not, that if she thought of the perfect penis, it would have less skin. I would compare it to how men might consider a camel toe vagina and symmetrical boobs are preferred by men, but no dude would tell his girl that their vagina and boobs would look better otherwise. You just get into their body the way it is and wouldn’t want to hurt their feelings by being dumb and saying their droopy boobs would look better if they weren’t.

My ex had a vagina that looked like a mouth with its tongue out (not labia) but it just couldn’t look like an camel toe due to too much meat and asymmetrical boobs with one nipple looking down and the other also rather low and saggy boobs. I would say she’s beautiful and when she asked how I liked her pussy I would say that it’s pretty and just how I liked it. We broke up and my new gf/wife now has the perfect camel toe looking vagina (kind of pussy that made to be shaved bare) and perfect C round boobs with nicely placed nipples and it’s just pleasant to look at and would universally be considered beautiful. Like sometimes she’s sitting there naked and I can’t stop staring at her perfectly plump pussy even-though we’ve been married for years and always want to play with it (never felt that way with my ex). So what I’m trying to say is while my wife likely would prefer a penis with less skin that she wouldn’t tell me anything like that because that would hurt my feelings but if I could get into her brain I’m sure she thought a penis looks better with less skin but doesn’t say anything to not hurt my feeling, and I’m okay with that cause I’d do the same as experienced with my ex.

jwiz

(visitor to the site for _1 year, but first post. This type of thread is my fav, thanks for sharing your stories!)

33 year old white guy, born on the east coast, parents from Europe. Definitely I was mildly self-conscious through high school, overhearing girls and just generally having a finger on the pulse of society from jokes in tv, etc.

Girlfriend #1 in HS: was Jewish (dad was a rabbi actually!), the first time she saw it, I gave sort of an orientation to my foreskin, but I was really awkward about it I think. She was weirded out by my dick, only played with it twice, but she was weirded out also by all dicks which I knew since she also dated my friend who was circumcised (dicks are in fact weird! and it seems natural that these first times would be awkward for everyone).

Girlfriend #2 in HS: The only time she gave me a handjob, beforehand when we were making out I mentioned that I was uncircumcised. She replied "I've never been with a guy who was [circumcised]!" I am pretty sure she just didn't know what circumcision was, since she had been with a few guys and that seems statistically unlikely. We broke up soon after.

Most hookups in college, neither I nor the woman mentioned it--no ooh's or ahh's or faces of delight or scorn, either way.

Girlfriend #3, in college: she was a virgin, one time in the shower she asked if I was circumcised or uncircumcised, so I explained to her the difference. She expressed admiration for my dick on numerous occasions but never specifically about my foreskin.

Girlfriend #4, now my wife. Met late in college, she is also from the USA. The first time we hooked up, she went down on me and exclaimed with surprise, "you're uncircumcised! I've never been with someone who wasn't circumcised..." then about a minute later, "I think I like it!" She definitely expresses a preference for uncut cock, and doesn't necessarily get off on playing with foreskin specifically, but is eager to do any foreskin play that I ask for.

A decade later we opened our marriage. First of all it has been very arousing for me to watch my wife suck other cocks (both cut and uncut). Also I have had a few more experiences.

Hookup #1, 6 yrs younger. From USA but an area where circumcision is less popular. When we got naked she said, "I have a huge uncut cock fetish." That just about made my year 🙂. We hooked up twice.

Hookup #2, my age, had never been with an uncut guy. Was eager to learn. Is now a huge fan of sucking/nibbling it skin up.

Hookup #3, my age. Didn't comment, clearly knew what she was doing. I usually do not bring it up (having foreskin) but rather just proceed like it ain't no thing, since in reality it is not. Then if they bring it up spontaneously I really get a kick out of that.

It is my experience so far that women mostly have a favorable view of foreskin once they have had experience. I am curious what women who I've hooked up with in the past think now, if they have encountered other uncut guys, and especially those who later on had kids, did their past sexual sexual experience change their perspective on whether to have a their own kids cut or left intact.

Restore-al

Here's a few good ones I had over the years.
(UK, Circumcised for "medical reasons")

I've found the ladies here do not express a preference as it not so common.

GF 1: Asked where my foreskin was. I explained I was circumcised and she asked her mum who told her "sex is not as fun as there's less skin to play with and sex takes longer."

GF 2: Who was a paediatric Nurse, was trying to retract my foreskin and I had to explain. She said that's a shame and hadn't ever thought about how it makes a difference during sex, but didn't have a preference.

Housemate: (quite an open lady) Asked if I had ever torn my foreskin, I said I don't have that problem..... The next day she said she had a question but was too embarrassed to ask. She asked why I was circumcised and she had researched it online that night. She said she might what to experiment as her on / off BF was uncut and she had never knowingly been with a circumcised guy.
Her feedback was it was like a dildo and not as soft as an uncut, again no preference.

House mate again, we were playing "Never have I ever" with her friends and their partners, she said "Never have I ever been circumcised" I was the only one drinking in the group!

Same housemate and friend getting ready for a night out having pre-drinks and asked if they could see my circumcised penis as her friend had also not seen one.

GF4: Middle eastern, laughed when she realised I was circumcised and said, what are the chances of finding circumcised guy in UK and how many guys are circumcised here?

I think women do not care so much either way.

tubwheat

Here's a list of all of the things that the girls/women in my life (all younger millennial/older gen z and American) have said my foreskin/uncircumcised dick looks like to them, from back when I was middle school, all the way to present day:

A worm
An elephant trunk
An anteater
An aardvark
A slug
A sea creature
A turtle
An animal
A tentacle
A geoduck
A cross between a sea cucumber and an anemone
A tardigrade, "you could survive in the vacuum of space"
A cocoon
"One of those squishy water worm toys"
An unsharpened pencil
An unpeeled banana
The end of a balloon
A Crayola crayon
A turtleneck sweater
A hoodie
A sock that isn't quite put on all the way
Deformed
"Unlike anything I've ever seen before"
Pussy folds
Puckered lips
An "extreme" outie belly button
A butthole
A "weird little alien"
"Very wrinkly"
"Too much extra skin"
"Like it's going to suck my soul"
Like something "imploding into itself"
"Like it smells like cheese"
"Something out of a horror movie"
"Not something I can see any woman being attracted to"
"Really really unfortunate"
"To be honest, just a little off-putting"
"Whoever said they looked the same as a normal dick when they're hard was lying."

Some were said as friendly jokes, some were said as neutral observations, and some were said as genuine reactions of disgust, but all were said as honest descriptions by women that have seen my penis.

Bonemail666

tubwheat wrote
Some were said as friendly jokes, some were said as neutral observations, and some were said as genuine reactions of disgust, but all were said as honest descriptions by women that have seen my penis.

Wow, some harsh ones in there. These all occurred in the context of hooking up with girls, or were just showing your junk to some in a non-sexual context?

tubwheat

Bonemail666 wrote
tubwheat wrote
Some were said as friendly jokes, some were said as neutral observations, and some were said as genuine reactions of disgust, but all were said as honest descriptions by women that have seen my penis.

Wow, some harsh ones in there. These all occurred in the context of hooking up with girls, or were just showing your junk to some in a non-sexual context?

Mix of both. Some were hook-ups/girlfriends, some were just friends wanting to see an uncircumcised penis for the first time, and some were entirely non-sexual situations like skinny dipping, streaking, truth or dare, drinking/strip games at parties, etc.

andy83

Most of my experience with a variety of women happened between 2005 and 2015. Some women were born in america and others in other countries, so I've had experience with girls where circumcision was and wasn't the norm. Of the women who mentioned it, most had a preference for a circumcised penis. Here are some examples.

A polish-born girl. She was shy and the first time we hooked up she was laying in my bed in her underwear with her back to me, and she reached over me without looking to touch my penis. She first touched my head with her fingers, then went down my shaft. She pulled up to stroke me and felt the skin move up over my head. Still not looking at me she said "what's this, is your penis not circumcised?" I said no, and she said "I thought all the guys here got it done to make it cleaner." I said, no not everyone. I just shower. She said "my brother in Poland isn't circumcised either, we don't do it at home, but the guys i've been with here all have been."
an american girl after sex sat on her dresser and looked at my penis. She smiled and said "you know you have a really nice dick." I said "thanks, you like it?" She said "yeah, you're really big." Then a moment later she continued "do you think you'd have your kids circumcised?" I said "no, I think it's better to leave that up to them. What about you?" She said "I think I would do it. I just find it looks nice and neat when a guy is circumcised."
an american girl I met on a dating app. We went for a drink. She asked if I liked girls with piercings. I said that I did and asked if she had any in any fun places. She said "both my nipples are pierced." and gave me a smile. I asked her if she liked anything particular in a guy. She said "nah, I'm not really picky like that. As long as your mama got you snipped when you were born it's all good."
An indian-born girl. First time we got naked she started to give me a blowjob and said "so - are you not circumcised?" I said no, and she said "why not?" I just said it wasn't really common where I grew up and she didn't really say much about it. We had a teasing, sort of banter-y relationship. Once in a sex shop together she said "look at all the dildos, they're all circumcised" I was like "yeah, I guess it's hard to make a fake foreskin. And she said "it's because no woman would choose that Andy!" On another occasion, I had a house party and she invited her friends over. Her white american girlfriend got really drunk and went and passed out in my bed. So when everyone left, the two of us climbed in beside her and I was sandwiched in between them which was really exciting for me. In the morning we were all under the covers, in our underwear. The indian girl reached under the sheets and started playing with my dick. I got hard. She pulled the sheets down just enough to show her friend the top half of my dick and said "look, he's excited to be between us! Look at how big he is!" And the other girl said "ooh, you're right - he is really big!" Then the indian girl pulled up on my foreskin so it covered the tip and said "but look - he never got circumcised!" and giggled. The other girl laughed too and said "go to the kitchen and get some scissors. We can fix that for him!"
an american girl i was dating for about 6 months. She never really gave me head and I would go down on her regularly to try to encourage her to reciprocate. At some point I asked her why she didn't like giving head and she was like "well andy, you do have a lot going on down there."
a jordanian-born girl born was telling me how she had done a home stay when she was a teenager on a farm, and was surprised to find out that sheep don't naturally have short stumpy tails. They dock them so that they don't get infections. I said "ouch - that sounds painful!" And she said "I mean, I guess it's like you guys right? You have to get circumcised to keep your dick clean, it's like the same thing for them."
an american-born jewish girl stretched my foreskin over the tip of my penis after sex and kind of played with it making honking noises. I laughed and said "are you having fun with my dick?" And she said "yeah! I loved to scrunch up the skin on guys when they're not circumcised. It's like playing with a puppet."
an american-born girl and I met at a bar. She asked if I lived far, and I told her my place was the next block down. She said "we're both adults here, I think we know what's going on. Want to go back to your place?" At my place we got into bed and she stripped down to her bra and thong, and took off my underwear. She said "oooh, you're uncircumcised?" in a way that sounded positive. I said "yeah, do you like that?" And she said "well you're lucky, you have a lot of extra nerve endings."
an american-born persian girl. we had a few dates and she said "why are you so perfect?" On the third date when she came back to my place she took off my pants, and said "are you not circumcised?" I said no, and she said "well, almost perfect. that's ok, I can deal with it."
I saw a urologist because of some scarring that developed in my shaft. She was female. She explained that there was a surgical option to try to remove the plaque, but that if I wanted to do that I should also consider getting circumcised. I asked why and she said "well, it probably won't heal well. The foreskin will swell up and you might need to do an emergency circumcision if that happens. But it's up to you, I never force my patients to do it." I said I was worried that I might lose some sensation during sex if I did that. She said "well, I can tell you that my patients who I've done it for have never mentioned that to me. They might just not tell me, but as far as I can tell it doesn't change much except the part where you feel the most pleasure might change. Personally I don't think it makes much difference, I never tell a patient that he has to do it even though personally I hate it because it get's in the way."
I was friends with a russian born girl in college. She told me about a friend who went to england and went clubbing at a place called the purple turtle and only realized that it was a gay men's club after she entered. I said "well with a name like that it makes sense." She asked why and I said "i think the purple turtle means a dick". She said she didn't get it and I said "well, the head is hidden inside, and when it comes out it's a little purple." She said "eww, but I thought all guys got circumcised." I said "it's not common in the UK" She said "it's not common in Russia either, but it's good that in the US guys do it."
I was flirting with a beautiful colombian girl in Miami at a bar. She was telling me how much she loved Miami. I said, you must have beautiful beaches in Colombia too. And she said "yes, but I really love american men, I don't like to date colombian guys." I asked why she liked americans and she said "you guys are more respectful of women, you're more into eating healthy and exercise... plus, colombian guys have that thing down there." I was like "what do you mean?" and she said "you know... american guys, you get your thing cut." I said "oh, you mean circumcised?" And she said "yes - that's the word. The guys in Colombia don't do that."
an indian born college girl. I met her at a house party in new york and started flirting with her. I asked her what kind of guys she was into. She said "I like white guys. I don't date indian dudes." I asked why not and she said "cause they're dirty." I said, "well, im sure most of them shower." She said "it's not about that, they don't get circumcised." I said "oh, I'm not circumcised. It's not a big deal to wash it in the shower." She looked at me in the eyes and said "that's disgusting." Then nudged her friend sitting beside her and said "andy's not circumcised." He friend smiled and said "eww, why not?" For context these girls were freshmen, probably about 20 years old.
An american born girl. She was naked in my bed and I got naked and was standing in front of her. She said "you know you have the perfect dick right?" I said "what do you like about it?" She said, "you have those nice ab muscles that point down towards your dick, it's really big, and when you're hard it looks circumcised."

tubwheat

andy83 wrote
an american girl I met on a dating app. We went for a drink. She asked if I liked girls with piercings. I said that I did and asked if she had any in any fun places. She said "both my nipples are pierced." and gave me a smile. I asked her if she liked anything particular in a guy. She said "nah, I'm not really picky like that. As long as your mama got you snipped when you were born it's all good."

What did you say to that? How did the rest of the date go?

andy83

tubwheat wrote
andy83 wrote
an american girl I met on a dating app. We went for a drink. She asked if I liked girls with piercings. I said that I did and asked if she had any in any fun places. She said "both my nipples are pierced." and gave me a smile. I asked her if she liked anything particular in a guy. She said "nah, I'm not really picky like that. As long as your mama got you snipped when you were born it's all good."

What did you say to that? How did the rest of the date go?

I just laughed and said “and what if she didn’t?” The girl laughed back and said “hey, I would never body shame anyone. But it’s my preference. There are so many guys in NY, why would I hook up with someone who wasn’t going to turn me on?”

Didn’t seem like there was much I could do so I told her I wasn’t cut and wished her the best of luck. That was kind of it.

Omegutted

2. an american girl after sex sat on her dresser and looked at my penis. She smiled and said "you know you have a really nice dick." I said "thanks, you like it?" She said "yeah, you're really big." Then a moment later she continued "do you think you'd have your kids circumcised?" I said "no, I think it's better to leave that up to them. What about you?" She said "I think I would do it. I just find it looks nice and neat when a guy is circumcised."

Did she know you were uncut? If so, how did she respond to that one?

Great post, by the way

zigzag

More curious on andy saying most of his experiences was from 2005 to 2015. Did the topic stop coming up or another reason had changed? If it's too personal you don't have to answer.

This thread is actually pretty interesting seems some of us had good experiences with women, some bad, or like me neutral and/or being uncircumcised was never brought up by the women I've been with.

In Andy's post seems the foreign born women were indoctrinated to believing uncircumcised was dirty or made to prefer circumcised against their birth place culture. Crazy to think how strong american culture and negative attitude to foreskin can change a girls opinion so easily.

Though some of the girls said they prefer circumcised they still had sex and gave positive comments on other parts of Andy's dick lol so that's a plus. Maybe some of the women I've been with preferred circumcised and didn't care to say anything who knows don't care about asking. It's a guess but, canada embraces multiculturalism while US is more of a melting pot so assimilation would be more of a thing in the US then where I'm from. Probably why circumcision is less common here and other things that are different I could be off though.

veigus

These encounters all took place between 1998 and 2006.

My first girlfriend (American) had only been with one other guy and he was circumcised. She was very enthusiastic about pleasing me so she took a lot of time figuring out what I enjoyed. The sex was great and she would constantly talk about my dick to her friends. I had written on here once before about a threesome we had with her good friend and she how she showed me off to a bunch of sorority sisters.
Hooked up with a random American girl in college. I made a comment about not being circumcised and she said that she preferred uncut penises.
Hooked up with a girl who was bisexual and half Thai/half white I think. She had ridiculously large breasts but they felt odd, they weren't very dense. She said while she was blowing me that she liked uncircumcised dicks because there was more to play with.
I dated this Cuban girl for a couple of years. I've been friends with her since high school and we still keep in touch. The sex was always incredible. I think she said that my penis looked funny but clearly it didn't affect our relationship. She ended up getting married and having two boys. She didn't get them circumcised even though her husband is.
I dated this one American girl for only a month and a half. The sex was incredibly boring. Her hand jobs and blowjobs were god awful. She basically just wanted to lie there and have me cum inside her even though she wasn't on birth control. I refused to. The whole relationship made me very uncomfortable. I asked her about me being uncut and she said that she had dated a Russian guy who wasn't circumcised so this wasn't her first rodeo.
Hooked up with this 6' tall blonde, fake tan American woman a bunch of times. The sex was always a lot of fun but she didn't give blowjobs. I think she said that she had gag reflex issues. I don't think she understood that you can give a blowjob without having to deep throat the cock. I went out to dinner with her and her roommate one time. Her roommate brings up that there is a guy she is friends with who she is thinking about hooking up with and he told her that he isn't circumcised. Kind of an odd conversation to be having in the middle of a restaurant. I felt like I was being set up. My girlfriend doesn't comment so I tell her roommate that I'm not circumcised and its no big deal. My girlfriend then says, "You aren't?! I wasn't sure!" I'm not really sure how she didn't know considering I had fucked her so many times by that point.
Hooked up with another American girl a few times. I think after the first time we had sex I made a comment about being uncircumcised. She was confused and then started playing with my dick. She didn't realize that I had a foreskin but clearly didn't have a problem with it. Hooked up with her a few times until I met...
My wife. I guess I brought up being uncircumcised in conversation relatively early on once we started having sex. She said that she had never been with an uncircumcised guy before me but she didn't have any issues with it. She said that if she had a boy she wouldn't want him to be circumcised. I've never asked her to play with my foreskin but she regularly will while we lay in bed. I think she enjoys playing with the overhang.

intact

The experiences here vary, I suspect, because not only do situations vary wildly, but so has access to information over the years.

Prior to the World Wide Web (1996?) the only place one could look up information on circumcision was books. I remember checking every card catalog in every library I visited. When my office got its first browser-equipped computer, I searched there, too--after hours, of course. (Somebody must have wondered what the hell was going on with the browser history.)

Then as SEO got more sophisticated and prevalent, simply searching for "circumcision" or "foreskin" changed, too. I haven't documented how it varied, but I know I got different results every year.

Now, I'm not sure where young people are looking. TikTok? Facebook? Discord? I'd bet the "answers" there are different from other resources, too.

andy83

Omegutted wrote
2. an american girl after sex sat on her dresser and looked at my penis. She smiled and said "you know you have a really nice dick." I said "thanks, you like it?" She said "yeah, you're really big." Then a moment later she continued "do you think you'd have your kids circumcised?" I said "no, I think it's better to leave that up to them. What about you?" She said "I think I would do it. I just find it looks nice and neat when a guy is circumcised."

Did she know you were uncut? If so, how did she respond to that one?

Great post, by the way

Oh yeah, she knew. I said to her "didn't you just say you that thought I have a really nice dick?" and she said "you do, but there's always room for improvement baby"

zigzag wrote
More curious on andy saying most of his experiences was from 2005 to 2015. Did the topic stop coming up or another reason had changed? If it's too personal you don't have to answer.

This thread is actually pretty interesting seems some of us had good experiences with women, some bad, or like me neutral and/or being uncircumcised was never brought up by the women I've been with.

In Andy's post seems the foreign born women were indoctrinated to believing uncircumcised was dirty or made to prefer circumcised against their birth place culture. Crazy to think how strong american culture and negative attitude to foreskin can change a girls opinion so easily.

Though some of the girls said they prefer circumcised they still had sex and gave positive comments on other parts of Andy's dick lol so that's a plus. Maybe some of the women I've been with preferred circumcised and didn't care to say anything who knows don't care about asking. It's a guess but, canada embraces multiculturalism while US is more of a melting pot so assimilation would be more of a thing in the US then where I'm from. Probably why circumcision is less common here and other things that are different I could be off though.

It's just the point in my life when I was most sexually active with a variety of women. I met my wife in 2016. She actually asked me if I was circumcised after the first time we had sex, and I said no. She said "I didn't think so. I think it's so stupid that most parents do that here"

zigzag

andy83 wrote
Omegutted wrote
2. an american girl after sex sat on her dresser and looked at my penis. She smiled and said "you know you have a really nice dick." I said "thanks, you like it?" She said "yeah, you're really big." Then a moment later she continued "do you think you'd have your kids circumcised?" I said "no, I think it's better to leave that up to them. What about you?" She said "I think I would do it. I just find it looks nice and neat when a guy is circumcised."

Did she know you were uncut? If so, how did she respond to that one?

Great post, by the way

Oh yeah, she knew. I said to her "didn't you just say you that thought I have a really nice dick?" and she said "you do, but there's always room for improvement baby"

zigzag wrote
More curious on andy saying most of his experiences was from 2005 to 2015. Did the topic stop coming up or another reason had changed? If it's too personal you don't have to answer.

This thread is actually pretty interesting seems some of us had good experiences with women, some bad, or like me neutral and/or being uncircumcised was never brought up by the women I've been with.

In Andy's post seems the foreign born women were indoctrinated to believing uncircumcised was dirty or made to prefer circumcised against their birth place culture. Crazy to think how strong american culture and negative attitude to foreskin can change a girls opinion so easily.

Though some of the girls said they prefer circumcised they still had sex and gave positive comments on other parts of Andy's dick lol so that's a plus. Maybe some of the women I've been with preferred circumcised and didn't care to say anything who knows don't care about asking. It's a guess but, canada embraces multiculturalism while US is more of a melting pot so assimilation would be more of a thing in the US then where I'm from. Probably why circumcision is less common here and other things that are different I could be off though.

It's just the point in my life when I was most sexually active with a variety of women. I met my wife in 2016. She actually asked me if I was circumcised after the first time we had sex, and I said no. She said "I didn't think so. I think it's so stupid that most parents do that here"

Thanks for the reply! Yeah I started dating my wife in 2015 and we got married in 2018. She compliments my dick all the time lol but she never mentioned my circumcision status. We talked about circumcision in general but not much and decided if we have a son we wouldn't but that's about it.

Dirtydown

I mostly lurk here, but I do post when I think I have something worthwhile.
I have a decent amount of interesting interactions being uncut in the states, so I can at least share some experiences:

Growing up I noticed differences between me and other peeps that were cut, never knew why I was different just thought dicks came that way. Something to mention is I had phimosis growing up, so my foreskin used to have a very noticeable, bright pink, kind of “nippled” tip.
Dunno if it counts, but had this awkward period growing up where I used to play truth or dare with cousins. One thing we’d dare each other is to strip, needless to say the girls noticed the obvious difference between me and my boy cousins. Had mentions of general curiosity “why does it look like that?”, one even said it “looks like a Pokémon” (I’m guessing bellsprout?)
Fast forward a couple years and I got my first gf, a cute chubby goth girl with purple hair. My first real sexual experience. Her parents were gone, and she wanted to go down on me, she pulls it out, just kinda stares at it confused for a bit and says “…huh.” I ask what’s up, and she asks me “Are you uncircumcised?” even though the answer to her question is staring her in the face. I tell her I’m uncut, she just says “Oh, okay” and gives me my first blowjob (skin up due to phimosis). She gets curious and does research online, next time I see her she tells me I need to learn how to pull the skin back (which I never had before), later on when we try to have sex the first time, she tries to pull the skin back, after some HARD tugging it goes behind the head, …but it gets stuck. Go to the hospital, and they do minor surgery to make the opening of my foreskin big enough for my head to fit through, my penis is saved and after some healing it works 100%, skin goes up and down no problem.
Next girl that saw it was a mutual friend of me and my 1st gf, a cute blonde stoner girl that was VERY open about sex. My gf told her about my downstairs situation, and one day the three of us were hanging out, my gf just randomly asked “So… can I show my friend your weird penis?”, didn’t really appreciate that they said it was “weird”, but I did like that girls wanted to see my junk so I said yes. I sit on the side of the bed, and they sit on the floor as I pull it out. They both act goofy and curious, asking questions like “ So how do you wash it?”, “Can you peel it back?” Etc. They also say “It’s cute!” and “It looks like it’s making a kissy face! (Because of the tip), and they do this a couple of times when we hang out. This whole experience I 100% consider my kink awakening for foreskin curiosity/foreskin play
2nd girlfriend was a hippy girl with kinda Weird Al hair, I went down on her, but when she went to return the favor she said “…Your thing is weird.” And we stopped. Only dated for about a week before we broke up.
3rd gf never saw it.
4th gf, was VERY sexually inexperienced, and really not into it. Only notable thing she said was when she first gave me a handjob she asked “Is it supposed to look like that?”, ended up dating for three years before we broke up.
5th gf was a trans girl, we fooled around with me giving her a handjob/blowjob first, though I was sad she was circumcised, because I would love to play with a foreskin that wasn’t my own. (She was also ALOT bigger than me, whomp whomp) and when she went to give me a handjob she had no clue what she was doing, just kinda tickled it and gave a bad handy, even saying “Are you done yet?” (Like… you HAVE one! You’ll know when it’s done!) broke up after a couple months
6th gf met online and dated for about a year, she was a cute fat girl with glasses, and was very sexual, though she never really mentioned anything in particular about me being uncut. Only thing is she would say “Oh hello, Mistah Foreskin!” Once or twice in a goofy NewYorker accent, and said flicking her tongue on my frenulum was “plucking the banjo string”
7th was the BEST sexual relationship I ever had. Dated 8 years, and even got engaged. Cute n’ chubby tomboy, they used to call my foreskin “cute”, would hold the skin up and make out with the tip, while saying “Your cock is an AMAZING kisser!”, and would spend a lot of time just playing with my foreskin, inserting finger/tongue and roll them around, and when we fucked would say “My pussy LOVES your foreskin so fucking much! It’s her favorite present to unwrap!<3” Needless to say this relationship is where my foreskin kink exploded in full force, but sadly the relationship ended and the wedding was called off.
After that relationship, did some cam stuff with someone online, when they saw me pull my foreskin back for the first time they said “Holy Snapple!” Which got a laugh out of me. Never got that reaction before! Another online girl was Jewish and surprised me with her foreskin kink that was similar to mine! She was a cosplay weeb, and into hentai so she said she got her foreskin kink from all the uncut play in hentai manga, even told me “Phimosis is SO CUTE! It’s like aww the penis is shy and hiding inside! And it’s fun to stick your finger in there lol”, one other online girl said she only likes uncircumcised because “cut ones are scary”, though as nice as these online experiences were never fleshed out into full relationships.
Went to a friend’s party once where a Korean girl was talking about how she had a “special relationship” with foreskin and how much she loved uncircumcised as her first penis experience was uncut, and how sad she was that every guy she’s met since then was cut. We were both in relationships at the time so nothing happened though.
Currently in relationship with my best friend, they have indulged my kink, but I know they are only doing it to make me happy and sexy times are few and far between. One really nice notable moment though was when they woke me up in the middle of the night and just out of nowhere asked “Can I kiss your cock?” and proceeded to give me a kissjob and French kiss my foreskin which was pretty amazing.

But yeah, that’s all I can think of off the top of my head, though there may be a few small mentions here and there that slipped my mind. If anyone wants me to elaborate or anything on any particular moments feel free to ask.

Christian19

Growing up I always looked different than my friends at school, I was always self conscious as I was the only uncircumcised guy in my friend group. There was always the teasing from my friends but nothing serious just guys being guys. I was always nervous to what girls would say when I would eventually start dating and get interested in sex but I hoped for the best.

My first experience with a girl was an interesting one. We were making out and both of us were nervous as we “planned” out that would see each other for the first time. I took her shirt off and saw boobs for the time and she said your turn and I took my shirt off. Then I took her pants and underwear off and she said your turn. The moment of truth had arrived. I took my pants and underwear off and then all my fears were realized. I saw it written all over her face. She look at my penis as if it was an alien then she spoke, “what’s wrong with your penis?” “Why does it look like that?; my brothers has a head”. Needless to say it killed the moment and we both got dressed. I told her that mine would look like that if she pulled the skin back and he reply was, “eew, why does it do that?” And I told her I wasn’t circumcised. We didn’t last much longer and we broke up. We were 15. That killed my confidence for a while and I didn’t anymore until I was 16.

My next girlfriend was a gorgeous brunette with big boobs that I was very excited to see and touch. I still had not touched any boobs and all my friends were getting handjobs and blowjobs and in some cases even having sex. I was still very inexperienced and nervous about showing a girl my “weird” looking penis. After a few weeks of dating and making out and over the clothes touching and receiving compliments on my size we were making out in my car and I built up the courage to take her shirt and bra off and touch her boobs. They were magnificent! While kissing and feeling her boobs she was rubbing me on the outside of my jeans and then I felt her pop the button. My heart instantly started racing as I knew what was going to happen. She lowered my zipper and reached in and started feeling my penis through my boxers. Then it happened, she pulled the elastic on my boxers and released my dick. This was all happening while we were kissing so she hadn’t seen anything and for the first time a girl was actually touching my penis! We continued kissing but she broke away from our kiss and looked down. My fears once again were realized. She said, “your dick feels different” as she was stroking it and on the up stroke she saw why as my foreskin covered my head. We both stopped almost as if time and our breathing stood still and she broke the silence and said, “are your not circumcised?” And I replied no. Still staring at my dick she says, “I’ve haven’t seen one like this” and she started to pull the skin down. She said, “wow that’s weird” “such a different feeling” and she continued to stroke it. I tried to kiss her and she said, “no I want to see it” and continued to stroke me. I told her I was getting ready to cum (I was my first time getting a handjob from a girl, cut me some slack) and she said that’s fine and stroked me a little more until I started to cum. She being totally inexperienced with an uncut cock when I started cumming she had actually pulled my foreskin up so instead of shooting it was more like a dribble because it was all inside. She asked, “I thought you came” and I said I did, it’s inside. She laughed and said what? Then she pulled my skin back and all the cum came out. She laughed again and said sorry I didn’t know. We got cleaned up and I put my pants on and she put her top on and on the drive home she said, can I ask you something? I was preparing for the worst. “Does it hurt when I stroke you and your skin moves up and down?” I told her no that just the opposite it felt really great. Then she asked, “is your skin always covering it? Unless I move it back?” I said yes, then she asked, “so right now it’s covered?” I said yes again. “Can I see it?” I said sure. I pulled up to her house and I undid my pants and I pulled my boxers down and showed her my soft foreskin covered penis. She pinched my foreskin and squeezed it a little between her fingers and said, “weird”. Then she grabbed my soft penis and said “this is where your head is” and traced the head and said, “I can see it underneath all your extra skin”. Then she pinched the tip of my foreskin again grabbed my cock and pulled my foreskin back and exposed my head. She said, “your so wet”. I was beginning to get hard again and she said, “save that for next time” and pulled my foreskin forward covering my head again then said, “not sure if I will get used to that”. She kissed me on the lips and went inside her house. On my way home I get a call and it’s her, we make small talk and I make it back home and I am laying in bed talking to her. She says, “yours is the first uncircumcised dick I have seen” and I ask her, have you seen a lot of dicks? She laughs and says no, I have seen 3 but they have all been circumcised. Then she said, “I am willing to overlook that your not because your so big, much bigger than Brandon” (her ex and the star basketball player in our school). We then discussed what each of us had done sexually and I found out she was a virgin and had only given handjobs before. I lied and said that I only had handjobs also before and we made plans to see each other the next weekend.

If everyone would like me to continue please let me know. I can also write about some other experiences I had in high school and college and with my beautiful and amazing foreskin loving fiancé. I am happy to say I have found a wonderful woman I am going to spend my life with and she absolutely loves my foreskin. She incorporates foreskin play into out foreplay as well as our intimate time.

intact

Christian19 wrote
I told her that mine would look like that if she pulled the skin back and he reply was, “eew, why does it do that?” And I told her I wasn’t circumcised. We didn’t last much longer and we broke up. We were 15. That killed my confidence for a while and I didn’t anymore until I was 16.

I'd be discouraged, too, if that had happened on my first encounter.

Christian19 wrote
“I am willing to overlook that your not because your so big, much bigger than Brandon”

Conditional acceptance is better than rejection, I suppose.

Christian19 wrote
If everyone would like me to continue please let me know.

Absolutely!

Now that I think about it, this theme would make for an interesting, stand-alone blog/website -- "First Encounters With Foreskin." Therapeutic for intact men in a circumcising culture, and informative for curious women.

Christian19

intact wrote
Christian19 wrote
I told her that mine would look like that if she pulled the skin back and he reply was, “eew, why does it do that?” And I told her I wasn’t circumcised. We didn’t last much longer and we broke up. We were 15. That killed my confidence for a while and I didn’t anymore until I was 16.

I'd be discouraged, too, if that had happened on my first encounter.

Christian19 wrote
“I am willing to overlook that your not because your so big, much bigger than Brandon”

Conditional acceptance is better than rejection, I suppose.

Christian19 wrote
If everyone would like me to continue please let me know.

Absolutely!

Now that I think about it, this theme would make for an interesting, stand-alone blog/website -- "First Encounters With Foreskin." Therapeutic for intact men in a circumcising culture, and informative for curious women.

Unfortunately those were my first experiences ever and they didn’t get off to the best start. I will continue my experiences with the hot brunette in the upcoming days.

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