Hah, Google Maps just crashed as 500 guys look to see how far away SW Missouri really is!
Jules, really happy that your quest was successful in the end (sort of). Kinda hot that you just wanted to see and touch his uncircumcised penis and then you did. Wouldn't mind betting that most of us uncut guys have had that fantasy once or twice. :-)
Shame about him being with someone else. Morally, I don't think there'd be anything wrong with you hooking up with him but it adds a whole extra level of complexity and probable BS that's best avoided.
Hope you have better luck next time and then come on here to tell us about it!
Re Craigslist: it's the same as all dating/hookup sites - it's mostly guys doing the looking. The straight guys have zero hits from the ladies and drift away leaving the gay and bi guys to have all the fun.