Discussing Your Fetish With a Girlfriend

4skinnyblondes

ffetish I would just start by adding “uncut” “foreskin” “uncircumcised” into your dirty talk.. she should recognize you doing it and then start doing it bc she knows you like it.. then talk about it. Communication leads to the best sex.

intact

4skinnyblondes Yeah, for me, if a girl says those words it’s instaboner. Like, she’s in on my secret.

impendingcalumniation1

Camel I wouldn’t put feminism in the “not good stuff at all” category. I’m sure there are examples of extremism in every movement, but we all know it’s important to recognize and address what’s unfair in society. Part of being a high value person is listening and learning from the perspectives of others, even if you don’t agree with all of it.

Camel

impendingcalumniation1 The idea of equal rights under the law is fair, however, the current form a feminism is pretty toxic. It’s not the feminism of a the 1920’s where they had legit beefs. The current form of toxic feminism encourages women to engage in self destructive behaviours that will ultimately leave them childless and alone. Some examples are the feminist body positivity movement, which encourages obesity and poor dietary habits, and encourages a defeatist attitude that being athletic and fit is unattainable. The promiscuity encouragement modern feminism encourages isn’t good for women, statistically, the more partners a woman has the higher the rate of marital failure and can lead to STDs/STIs and infertility. Psychologically the effects of promiscuity are extremely dark too. Also, feminism was funded by Rockefeller in the 60s as a way to break up the family unit and double the work force. By getting women to enter the workforce, you double the workforce and drive down wages. I mean, good or bad is relative to the persons values, but a lot of these things aren’t benevolent as claimed.

Some_guy

Lol

jwiz

wow

Squirrel

Feminism, men’s support groups, religion, anarchy - everything taken to the extreme is bad.

Here’s how it is for many women in (checks watch) 2022.

Woman works out regularly and posts a photo of her fit and toned body to Instagram;
Incel: that is disgusting, you look like a man. Probably a lesbian anyway.

Woman enjoys life but doesn’t exercise as much as she could, posts photo of herself watching TV with her cat;
Incel: fat bitch, you’re too ugly to even get raped.

Woman advertising her Onlyfans, posts photo to Twitter of herself in pigtails and bobby socks with shaved pubes, looking all of 16 years old;
Incel: (tries to slide into her DMs) send me free nudes, what city you in? Gives her his snap and tries to get hers.
Switches to a torrent of abuse when he doesn’t get free pics or her snap. Tries to dox her and posts negative reviews consisting mostly of mis-spelt swear words. Stalks & torments her on social media.

xioxio

[Login to see the link] i’m pretty much the same way when it comes to foreskin and circumcision talk it’s an instant turn-on…..being the only uncut guy growing up has only made this more of a thing……it is hard to talk about without feeling weird but is it such a turn-on all at the same time

intact

xioxio

I must have skipped this comment when it first appeared. I’m in 100 percent agreement on this.

Perhaps my/our intrigue is from a combination of shame/embarrassment over having a secret to keep for all those years. Letting her into it is not just vulnerable, it’s a relief.

I had a kind-of similar experience the other way, with a girl who was virtually flat-chested. She hid her little breasts under loose clothing for years and years. Then I showed her how much I love the look and feel of small boobs, and she opened up to me emotionally and physically. Part of that was just talking about her breasts, quizzing her about whether she wanted augmentation (which she didn’t, and neither did I), but it opened a door she had kept shut forever.

EurkenOps

ffetish I just started dating this girl, and she is very pro-foreskin! Awesome sauce… I have made a couple comments about how great it is that she is into it but haven’t mentioned it being a bit of a fetish.

Did you eventually tell her?

Camel I could go on about all the girls I’ve been with, I had one asian girl blow it up like a balloon and was anti-circumcision as they come.

How did that happen?

ffetish

[Login to see the link] I have discussed it with her a little bit thought to be honest I have been focusing on other sex related stuff with her; toys, trying to give advice on blow jobs in way that won’t hurt her feelings etc. She’s pretty anti-circ so the topic does come up in casual conversation sometimes. I did ask her to do a some insertion and ridged band stimulation but she hasn’t really taken to it. She’s kinda heavy focused on getting me off as quickly as possible, I’m pretty sure she plays on my quirk when she wants to. It’s been a little hard to bring ask for sex stuff without her taking it personally. I dunno maybe if I was more into being a dom which is her thing I could get more of the stuff I was interested in.

On the politics, I don’t think feminism has a monopoly on gender equality. Lots of ideologies that take issue with feminism still see women’s oppression as an issue. For example feminists tend to be split on male genital mutilation because it doesn’t fit into the world view of seeing the most important division between people as sex/gender.

K, off my soap box. Came her for some porn but no longer have any interest lol

drat

intact flat chested women are the best! Love them

SerHodor4

Camel

“Ya I think anything Taboo is sort of arousing to some people. Apparently thanks to a very powerful medical industry foreskin is bad in the western world.”

Not in the western world, just in the USA.