Tight Foreskin (Very)

circhead · 2022-11-30T04:20:48+00:00

haven’t made a regular post like this in a long time. but in case there’s different people here, do any of you guys have tight foreskin or “short” foreskin?...

drat

That circumcised guy your photos does have a monster dong and I too wish mine could look like his!

My foreskin fully covers my head when erect with enough overhang that I can’t even see the pee hole if I look down the barrel. I used to have foreskin tightness where I couldn’t pull back the foreskin to reveal the head until I was about 20 years old. It took years of painful and frustrating work to get it to the point where I can retract when soft, and then retract when fully erect. I too have a short frenulum which pulls my head and hurts when foreskin is attempted to be retracted to the max.

Sometimes I see porn where the female grips the cock at the base getting the shaft super tight and then jerks the cock from base to head which looks hot but I couldn’t have done to me due to short frenulum. I’ve also noticed that skin would seem to tighten up if I didn’t retract very often. So I would keep my foreskin pulled back in my boxer briefs which got me to loving the feeling of my head being uncovered. Something about the air and sensation on the head that feels like I’m free. I usually put away my penis in my underpants fully retracted but my foreskin doesn’t stay retracted and goes back to covering the head as I soon as I take off my boxer briefs which I wish it wouldn’t.

I’m an American so every girl I’ve been with has only been with circumcised men and I notice that everyone of them tries to pull the foreskin all the way down to the point of pain on my short frenulum and I have to explain to pull down less and was always too scared to bring up getting something done to the frenulum as I’m scared of anything when it comes to surgery on the penis. All these adult circumcised guys that decided to do for cosmetic reasons have some balls cause I couldn’t imagine going through that as an adult unless I had to for safety of the penis.

circhead

drat I’m American too, believe me I know. I’ve gone through shit whole life. And yea sean lawless aesthetic would be my pick lol. Or alex adams. Even if I wasn’t as big, I prefer a somewhat bigger head, higher scar. Mine grows out a little more like that when retracted for longer periods if time as it dries and somewhat keratinizes but goes back to normal after being covered for periods of time. Like you mine goes back over after I let it go and I don’t wear tight boxers so that never worked for me and I guess it’s just as well because while home I’ve gone hours and hours retracted, sometimes a full day or two but the frenulum and everything in that area gets so swollen that it’s dangerous. Sometimes just after an hour there’s no circulation. I’ve tried to push past it a few times thinking it would work itself out and it was bad. The frenulum got so swollen that after I pushed the foreskin back over it was still sticking out swollen for a day afterwards looking really bad, and getting cold, keeping my foreskin from being natural. I was scared the whole day lol. So yea, it’s just tight.

circhead

drat I thought about making one of those soft rings, or buying one, to keep you retracted. I may still do that. It might even help with stretching but I think if I got circumcised I wouldn’t have too much sensitivity issues because for years now I have felt the bare head in water, bed sheets, clothed, etc. So it would only be the pain of enduring the actual cut and stitches. I just want a free feeling lol I have never felt an erection without this feeling of being in a tight cage the whole time.

Crusnik

I’ve had a short, tight frenulum from my teenage years to many of my young adult years. I could retract my foreskin while soft, though my head would be pulled downward if I pulled back far. I could barely retract my foreskin over the head.

I resolved with persistent gentle, stretching. I would stretch to the point of the mild discomfort and hold it there. I would try to do it in a couple sessions a day, most frequently in the morning with my shower. It completely cleared up the issue. Gentle stretching stimulates the growth of new skin cells, making the frenulum longer and less tight. It’s the same principle that circumcised men use to restore their foreskins, or those earring gauges that were popular a few years back.

Just don’t expect it to all be fixed in a short time. It will take months or even a year to resolve. This may seem like a long time, but stretching is such a small thing to do; it will be over before you know it. Also, don’t stretch too far. If it’s seriously painful, don’t go that far. You want slow, incremental progress. Tearing will only set you back and could create scar tissue that could make the whole process harder. And try to be consistent with it. The better you are about keeping a schedule, the faster you’ll see results.

circhead

Crusnik I’ve stretched for about 5 years now, I’ve reached the limit of what I think I can do. But thanks for the tips.

circhead

nkx yea you have a short skin too. having a girl with vaginismus could make it easier to talk to, I wonder if she would get it more than an average girl

drat

circhead exactly how I feel. I just need that free feeling

XIX

circhead

There’s some cognitive dissonance going on here, and it’s a good step that you’re seeking advice from possibly similar people - and I’ll do my best to field this - but it would probably help you a lot to talk in person to someone you trust, or hell even a therapist. First of all, I understand the borderline body dysmorphia resulting from growing up uncut in America. It takes a lot of self confidence to know and believe that you’re normal - it’s ok to have an unaugmented penis. You don’t have to change to fit in.

I feel it necessary to say this because you seem to frame your issue in this manner…

That being said, you should frame your issue simply with regard to your health. You should only consider altering your penis if there is something medically wrong with it, and in your case, I think it is right to consider this. IT SHOULD NOT HURT TO HAVE SEX OR MASTURBATE! Before making any decisions, consider the following: 1. I assume your case is congenital and not due to chronic fungal/bacterial infection, but if you’re not sure, apply clotrimazole and triple antibiotic ointment for three weeks. (You’re probably fine here, I just want to cover bases for others referencing.) 2. Try noninvasive methods, and be PERSISTENT. If stretching alone hasn’t worked, go to the doctor and get steroid cream (not just OTC hydrocortisone) and apply it and stretch a little every time you piss or shower. Look at it like this: you’d have to apply petroleum jelly or antibiotic to a circumcision wound for months, so you might as well try a serious, disciplined, medicated stretching regimen for at least that long. 3. consider more extreme options -but ONLY after you’ve put considerable effort into 1 and 2: As for the frenulum, several people at [Login to see the link] have described a method of essentially piercing and tying off the most ventral part of the “webbing” of the frenulum to essentially lengthen/remove it. Take extreme caution and be careful of infection though. 4. At some point, if you’ve truly tried everything, get a circumcision. If your quality of sex and masturbation is truly affected by tight foreskin/frenulum (which could also fuel some confidence or body image issues), then you should get surgical correction. This would be one of the only times circumcision is actually medically necessary. But it is painful and the recovery is burdensome, and you’ll have to weigh those costs vs the discomfort while erect.

tldr: dick pain from tight foreskin sucks, change it by noninvasive methods first, but do it right and be dedicated. If you’re 100% sure all else has failed, get circumcised. You’re weighing months of considerable discomfort with years of sexual discomfort.

Best of luck in your decision.

circhead

XIX thanks for the reply. ill keep some of these things in mind. and yea, i have no fungal issues or anything like that. just been short and tight since forever. like i said even soft my foreskin covers like half of the head. in fact one of the annoying things i had growing up at least as far as physical stuff goes was the very tip of my dick, like my urethra getting agitated in my clothes while playing. in a very similar way you would hear from some circumcised guys here and there who say the rubbing really aggravated them growing up.

i know about pulled back but thanks. i did a lot of research man, this is a long time worth of stuff just kinda crammed into a single post for old times sake to see any new people here who also have tight foreskin. and it’s about both the aesthetics and medical need. there’s only three options for me and one of them aren’t even a full option at this point, but it’s cream, removing frenulum, or circumcision. and that’s why i’ve been avoiding it lol but it is what it is. like i said if i was like winston burbank or any of you guys with no issue i would settle for being pulled back and move on. i can’t do anything comfortably and that causes a lot of problems and im not even taking into account the way i specifically grew up and all that stuff. i mean soley medical stuff. it’s not fun. thank for the suggestions though.

Squirrel

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circhead

Squirrel I remember that

xevv

Okay, I think I have an interesting story for this. I had phimosis when I was younger. It was a mild case and I was able to retract it when flaccid, just not when erect. I also recall being able to force it all the way back while erect on one or two occasions. It was a bit painful, but luckily, it didn’t get stuck.

I inadvertently cured my phimosis without intending to. When I was younger, I didn’t know what circumcision was. When I watched porn, I tended to see circumcised penises a lot and thought it was normal. The theory I came up with was that as I got older, my penis would eventually “outgrow” the foreskin and the tip would become exposed on its own. I decided to try simulating what it was like to have an “adult penis” for a day and I kept the foreskin pulled all the way back throughout the day.

Seems like by keeping it all the way back for so long, the foreskin got stretched out a bit. I also recall getting erections a few times throughout the day and it hurt. I also slept overnight with the foreskin pulled back too. By the morning time, my foreskin was a bit sore but it healed up by the end of the day. I noticed that my foreskin was stretched out a bit and I was able to retract it while erect. Ever since then, I don’t have phimosis anymore.

Fortunately, it doesn’t seem like I sustained any permanent damage from it. I’ve heard stories of men keeping their foreskins pulled back long term and having their penises callous and lose sensitivity.

Crusnik

xevv

I inadvertently cured my phimosis without intending to. When I was younger, I didn’t know what circumcision was. When I watched porn, I tended to see circumcised penises a lot and thought it was normal. The theory I came up with was that as I got older, my penis would eventually “outgrow” the foreskin and the tip would become exposed on its own. I decided to try simulating what it was like to have an “adult penis” for a day and I kept the foreskin pulled all the way back throughout the day.

That’s actually how the foreskin is treated in a lot of Japanese culture. That’s why the term phimosis is often used erroneously in Japanese literature to refer to all circumstances where the foreskin covers the head of the penis.

circhead

xevv that’s pretty close to what I did. I have just reached my maximum point of retraction. There’s no further.

Blade69

For me my foreskin is loose. Granted I’ve been masturbating since I was 12. 31 now and it’s had plenty of time to grow and get loose over time. Best thing is try masturbating lightly in a hot shower. It’ll loosen your skin little by little. And while your frenulum is short, the light stretching should you continue should help out.

Trust me keep working at it. Do you want to spend around 1500 dollars to circumcise your penis and have to take a week or two off work or basic functions like walking and standing? Maybe if it’s medical insurance might cover. While I considered it, I’m going to keep my foreskin. Plus my girlfriend doesn’t mind it.

circhead

Blade69 I’ve reached the limit of how much I’ll be able to stretch. I’ve gone from not at all to reaching behind the head while hard for years now. That’s like 5 years ago and into today, everyday. Very tight and short frenulum and tight foreskin. Frenulum is the biggest issue over the tight foreskin. In many ways I may be able to possibly pull back further if it weren’t for my frenulum. They are working against each other.

*Also to any others who many respond with stretching tips, this is a new post but it’s not the first post like this, I just wanted to hear from people who may not have been around years ago and who have a similar thing. I know the post was long so maybe the tone of it was lost a bit but this isn’t a new thing. I appreciate the tips but I’m kinda past that at this point (unfortunately) but I’m glad these things have worked for some of you guys. I mean they better work lol. For me it’s either creams, frenectomy, or circumcision, and nothing else.

Omegutted

I had a mild case of frenulum breve, but stretched that away, and it didn’t even take much effort. As a result, I can retract very comfortably when soft or hard. I also have a noticeable overhang if I’m flaccid, which translates into almost complete erect coverage.

As a fellow American, having a foreskin that works as intended hasn’t been a problem (you can look up my other posts on that). I’d consider stretching or the creams if you’re really worried about your dick.

dc57dc

I have been meaning to comment on this thread for a week or so, just got down to it. I am getting on in years, but some of my life experiences may be of interest to some.

When I got married I had a completely unretractable foreskin. my first wife had had a previous BF who was retractable, and often tried to retract mine. She persuaded me , on the advice of her mother, to at least see our doctor, who said that it may resolve itself over time and to wait until we had been having sex for a year or two. He did give me steroid cream to put on the foreskin twice a day. After a couple of months, the foreskin did become much looser and thinner and retracted enough to show some of the gland.

Things stayed the same for several years, during which tie I got divorced and ended up with a new partner. She was much more interested in my cock and enjoyed stretching and playing with it. During sex I remember she once or twice she would put her hand between us and hold my foreskin back as tight as it would go often the entire gland would retract out. this was pleasurable but almost unbearable, and afterward it would be difficult to get the foreskin back over the gland. The skin got stuck in the rim under the gland

I was hospitalised some time after that and needed to be catheterised. during that stay in hospital the foreskin was cut open enough to reveal my gland and also to enlarge the hole at the tip to get the catheter in. After that, whenever I had an erection. the gland would come out and retract a bit but it would bend the gland downwards.

Over the years my foreskin has become tighter again. I can retract all the way back with ease and he skin goes forward easily. I recently needed medical advice and was given steroid cream again to treat a rash on the gland. at 70 my foreskin has loosened again.

I do agree with circhead, It is the frenulm that stops the skin going back under the rim.

Having watched a fair bit of porn, I think the way a boy leans to masturbate is relevant to how his cock develops. I always rolled the gland inside the foreskin. I never tried to pull the skin back . It was considered dirty to touch myself my mum never said anything to me about hygiene.

Just my two-pence worth.

rayray6769

My foreskin was tight in the beginning when I started retracting. I at first couldn’t expose the head even when soft. To be honest, I think what cured it was.. lots of masturbation and keeping it back when erect even though it sucked. I recall I just had to keep trying to pull it back, little by little and try to get it further back each time. It will certainly hurt a bit or feel like something is choking your dick head, but foreskin doesn’t seem to loosen up that easily or quickly for everyone. Eventually I began masturbating with the skin back. I think the time spent retracted and stretched during erections helped. Now pulling my foreskin back whether soft or hard is no issue. I think it took a little over a year to stop having painful/tight retractions.

Mattxxx

I think we spoke about this before. I had some foreskin issues with it being kind of tight. I’ve been circumcised ( loose and high) for a few years now. It’s always retracted but loose enough to jerk off without lube. I also had my frenulum removed. It’s better overall now but sometimes I do miss it.